This past months, ang mga nakakadate ko lately ay puro may Boyfriend. AND IT SUX BIGTIME. At baka kung may makabasa nito na nakadate ko, sige rephrase natin. Lately, ang mga nakakameet ko, puro may boyfriend and it sux. Baka sabihin kasi ng iba ditong makabasa, assuming ko naman na date na kagad yun.
So anyways, ayun. I hate it. pero kasi minsan, di mo maiwasan pag nagustuhan mo. Mali pero alam mo naman ang puso, palaging mali. Minsan lang tumama, pero mali pa din talaga. Aynako. Malabo, pero sana magets nyo.
Sige sabihin nating they're nice. Oo they're nice. hindi sila yung flirt-ish girlfriend material. Matino sila. Pero dba, parang ang unfair naman sa boyfriend nila na nakikipagdate, err nakikipagmeet sila sa iba pang lalake. What if kung gawin yan sa inyo ng boyfriend nyo? Dba masakit? Just think kung ano nararamdaman ng mga boyfriend nyo pag nakikipagdate, ERRRR nakikipagmeet pa kayo sa ibang guys. Nakikipagmeet ang ibig ko sabihin, yung 1 on 1. Like a date.
Dapat talaga, yung mga babaeng may boyfriend, hindi na nakikipagusap sa mga strangers eh. at sana kami, pag alam na na merong boyfriend, umiwas ka na. Wag mo na ipahamak sarili mo. Tukso yan. dapat nilalayuan. Meron pa naman iba dyan na walang sabit. dun tayo. Mahirap na kung mainlove ka. TALO KA. I admit it. Talo ako dun. Kasi alam kong hindi naman pwepwedeng maging kami. Pero dahil sa ka-istupiduhan ko, i still long for her AND THAT SUXXX BIGTIME. Ang hirap kalimutan pero kelangan kalimutan dahil mali talaga.
I need to think negative things about her, pero wala akong maisip na negatibo about her dahil wala talaga. We started out as nice friends. kulitan and stuffs. Kaya alam mo yun, walang bad thing about her. Kaya mahirap. pero dapat talaga kalimutan na. So far may progress naman. Hindi na kami naguusap. its a good start for me. At medyo nacocontrol ko na yung sarili ko na itext sya. Yes. im having progress. ayos. Pero wala. malungkot. malungkot na malungkot.
OFF LIMITS na ang may boyfriend. Wag na kausapin. wag pansinin. Wag patulan. Mali yan. Wag ka maging Relationship Wrecker. wag ka makipag mushy-han. Yan ang laging asa utak ko ngayon. I just hope makaya ko to. I dont believe in the saying, Patience is a virtue. Hindi totoo yan when it comes to relationship and love and commitment.
Maiinip ka kakahintay, Mapapagod ka kakahanap. LOVE SUX BIGTIME. Hirap maging single. well atleast for me, its hard talaga. dahil ayaw ko ng single ako. I want complications and shits. I want arguments. I want love. haay. Sobrang Lungkot ko. pfft. Sux.
So anyways, ayun. I hate it. pero kasi minsan, di mo maiwasan pag nagustuhan mo. Mali pero alam mo naman ang puso, palaging mali. Minsan lang tumama, pero mali pa din talaga. Aynako. Malabo, pero sana magets nyo.
Sige sabihin nating they're nice. Oo they're nice. hindi sila yung flirt-ish girlfriend material. Matino sila. Pero dba, parang ang unfair naman sa boyfriend nila na nakikipagdate, err nakikipagmeet sila sa iba pang lalake. What if kung gawin yan sa inyo ng boyfriend nyo? Dba masakit? Just think kung ano nararamdaman ng mga boyfriend nyo pag nakikipagdate, ERRRR nakikipagmeet pa kayo sa ibang guys. Nakikipagmeet ang ibig ko sabihin, yung 1 on 1. Like a date.
Dapat talaga, yung mga babaeng may boyfriend, hindi na nakikipagusap sa mga strangers eh. at sana kami, pag alam na na merong boyfriend, umiwas ka na. Wag mo na ipahamak sarili mo. Tukso yan. dapat nilalayuan. Meron pa naman iba dyan na walang sabit. dun tayo. Mahirap na kung mainlove ka. TALO KA. I admit it. Talo ako dun. Kasi alam kong hindi naman pwepwedeng maging kami. Pero dahil sa ka-istupiduhan ko, i still long for her AND THAT SUXXX BIGTIME. Ang hirap kalimutan pero kelangan kalimutan dahil mali talaga.
I need to think negative things about her, pero wala akong maisip na negatibo about her dahil wala talaga. We started out as nice friends. kulitan and stuffs. Kaya alam mo yun, walang bad thing about her. Kaya mahirap. pero dapat talaga kalimutan na. So far may progress naman. Hindi na kami naguusap. its a good start for me. At medyo nacocontrol ko na yung sarili ko na itext sya. Yes. im having progress. ayos. Pero wala. malungkot. malungkot na malungkot.
OFF LIMITS na ang may boyfriend. Wag na kausapin. wag pansinin. Wag patulan. Mali yan. Wag ka maging Relationship Wrecker. wag ka makipag mushy-han. Yan ang laging asa utak ko ngayon. I just hope makaya ko to. I dont believe in the saying, Patience is a virtue. Hindi totoo yan when it comes to relationship and love and commitment.
Maiinip ka kakahintay, Mapapagod ka kakahanap. LOVE SUX BIGTIME. Hirap maging single. well atleast for me, its hard talaga. dahil ayaw ko ng single ako. I want complications and shits. I want arguments. I want love. haay. Sobrang Lungkot ko. pfft. Sux.
68 comments:
bat nga ba ang ibang girls may BF/JOWA na nakikipag date pa rin?
@ true - ewan ko din. Kahit yung ibang kind natin pare, nakikipagdate pa din sa ibang babae. ang rason naman kasi, yung iba satin, MALANDI TALAGA. pero babae ewan ko ba. di ko din alam. haay.
matindi tong blog mo bro... di ko tuloy malamn kung ilan yung girls na sinabe mong "MGA nakakadate ko lately." ayus lang yan!! eventually amgiging okay den yan..
Oo nga ehh. Bakit nga kaya, unfair noh. -.-
I second the motion!
Kampay!!!
"Mali pero alam mo naman ang puso, palaging mali."
---i love this line big time...
they cant help it. girls are natural flirts.
tama ka..actually ang lalake di naman talaga nambababae..may nanlalake lang na babae..at biktima lang si MIGUEL..hehehehe!
well.. mahirap iwasan.. pero mas maganda ang maagap :D
or maybe... some girls really don't flirt. they just socialize. Kung yun ung tawag don.
ok, ayoko na magcomment. feeling close eh. haha.
cheers!
i feel you man..i feel you... it really suxxx
whoah! tsk tsk tsk! hehe! nakisali daw ba?! tama ka kasi e! tamang tama! hehe!
hindi pa naman yata kasal eh kaya pwede payan! ek kung ngang may asawa na naagaw pa diba? hehe!
badong just post this link though..
:c i feel you pare.
OFF LIMITS na ang may boyfriend. Wag na kausapin. wag pansinin. Wag patulan. Mali yan. Wag ka maging Relationship Wrecker. wag ka makipag mushy-han. Yan ang laging asa utak ko ngayon. I just hope makaya ko to. I dont believe in the saying, Patience is a virtue. Hindi totoo yan when it comes to relationship and love and commitment.
-------The best itong part na ito....Alam mo darating din ang babaeng para sa iyo..all right! :-)
i would like to contradict this one but not entirely. pwede naman siguro makipag usap wag na lang makipag bolahan, di ba?
hehehe
sabe nga nila.. mas mabilis mahuli ang manok na nakatali :) or something like that :)
inuman nalang! lolx
ok lang naman siguro kausapin at pansinin... pero alam naman natin minsan kung may atraksyon or wala tayong nafifil sa isang tao... like me... meron akong naging type DATI na merong WIFE... nung malaman ko, pinutol ko na from there kasi what if lalo akong nahulog diba?? at naging HOME WRECKER!!! :))
ganun lang din siguro sa pagkakaron ng bf ng mga gurls, SAMPLE ako... "IM SURE NAMAN HINDI MO AKO TYPE"... so i assume, kahit may bf ako... ok lang na maging magka chokaran tayo... PERO for example CRUSH MO AKO (nyahaha!! sample lang) ---- siguro, dun ka nalang wag mag-engage sa kahit anong possibleng ikapag-kasala nating dalawa :) hihihi...
Nako. ay nako singson.
be patient lang :)
dadating rin yung babaeng para sayo! :)
puso mo migz haha
nasa tao na din yun, kung gustong lumandi, kahit may bf/gf makikipagdate pa din. Wag na lang papahuli hahaha! what sux more is the fact that you can't hav'em for your own. whatever. ;)
naku mas mahirap kaya for girks kasi 1:8 na ata ang male:female ratio,so it means madami pa jang single girls,malulunod ka sa dami
very much true... pero ako? i LOVE being single.. :p
hahaha okay lang man!!! i told u man darating din yun time mo! eka nga nun iba, Lopang2x HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ps. suspended ako pre 3 to 5 days! 3rd memo! hahahah
pa singit..maybe because di sila happy sa current bf nila?..and naghahanap sila kung san sila masaya..alam kasi ng mga girls kung importanti sila sa guys and sinusuklian nila ng mga nice things naman..maybe that's not flirting, maybe appreciation,,na dala sa emosyon because pareho kayo ng na raramdaman and she can't let go sa current bf nya kahit di sya masaya dahil sa awa maybe?..you can't judge and descriminate that person kung ganun sya..lalo na if alam mo na matino sya..na tanong mo na ba sya kung kuntento at happy sya sa feeling ni bf nya?..and tell her anu na raramdaman mo?..malay mo pareho lang kayo ng feelings and she's willing to let go sa current bf nya to be your legal gf?..hehe..minsan kasi wag puro paramdam, minsan need din marinig, sabihin..walang masama kung magtatanong ka..and walang masama kung masasabi mo na raramdaman mo..and if mali ako ng akala sa point na toh..then that's the time ka sumuko..that's the point ka mablagay ng boundaries..that's thr realization factor..i love your blog :)
agree ako sis.. wag nmn deadmahin ang gurls na may bf hehe...
bsta dpat alam mo ang limits ,pra ndi masaktan...at tama d more n nkikipagdate ka sa "taken" na eh ul end up getting hurt..aba nmn dpat cut it off na hehe
hmmmmm siguro tong mga nakadate mo aren't happy on their bfs...but i do know that girls who's happy with their lovelife are loyal. :)
but hey, d lang naman girls ang ganitong ugali :) in fairness ren sa girls, may mga guys den na ganyan na kahit in a relationship na eh mahilig paren magflirt...and vice versa.. :)
ano ka ba! maniwala ka patience is a virtue! pero remember din na TIME IS GOLD. :)
agree ako dyan..nasa tao nlng yun kung patutukso sya .....
nice post tsong..;)
ang kulet ng comment..hehe! parang love at first sight then love is blind.
Migz, disagree ako sa sinabi mo na wag na kausapin ang may BF or Married.
masarap sila kausap eh ..bwahahhaa!!
Janis, ang kulet ng comment mo. wala lang.
Yung kasabihan na yan..pwede sa lalake and babae.
SHE's in a relationship, technically speaking WITH A BOYFRIEND. Yet still she keeps you around, contacting you occasionally but never going to the next step. She must be at least a little interested. Otherwise why would she keep calling you or texting you or dating you?
I'm going to clue you in on a fact you may not want to face, so brace yourself. The GIRL you've been waiting around for, wasting months of your life on, the GIRL you've made a priority is only keeping you around as an OPTION. You aren't her first choice. If you were, you'd be with her all the time. You would know how she feels about you because, guess what? SHe would know. At the moment She doesn't.
Men do it too, most of the time. I've had friends I've personally witnessed doing this sort of thing. We'll keep a guy around as our backup, taking his phone calls and hanging out with him -- knowing he's crazy about us but all the while knowing we'll never feel the same.
So why do we do it? Is it that we need the ego boost? Are we that afraid of being alone? Or maybe a part of us feels that if we'll only hold on a little while longer, our feelings will change.
It's so easy to recognize when we're someone's BACKUP. Yet we allow people to do this to us...why? Maybe, in a sense, we too are holding on out of fear of being alone. It's far easier to hang onto something familiar than to get out there and face the unknown. We know we deserve better but it's just not easy to let go. But deep down we know that if we walked away, he wouldn't stop us. Don't you want someone who would stop you?
When you are someone's priority, you never doubt it. She doesn't just call you when she's feeling lonely or BF is soo damn busy she needs a date. You never have to ask her where you stand -- you always know. If you're honest with yourself, you'll admit you'd be the same way. Aren't you a whole lot more attentive to a girl you're a crazy about? Wouldn't you prefer a girl who feels that way about you?
Go get her. She's out there waiting...
*sassy*
I have a female version blog of this and when I read your blog I just can't help but to make a version of YOU'RE A BACKUP BOY
hindi naman tama na porket taken na ung girl di mo na kakausapin, pero dapat magkaron ka ng limitations sa sarili mo, ok lang kung crush lang, natural un pero wag kang maiinlove
pa-link po ha? asar din ako sa ibang girls na lumalapit pa sa guy na committed eh!
i agree! :D pa link ^^
Gusto ko lang itanong... ano kaya ang "kasalanan o pagkakamali" (kung matatawag na kasalanan o pagkakamali nga ito) nung lalaking nakikipag-date sa isang babaeng may BF na... at to think na alam niya na may BF na ito... yung babae nga lang ba ang gumagawa ng mali against her BF?
sunget mo na. tsk.
probably because they're having probs with their current 'partner' or they're looking for something that their 'partner' CAN NOT give...^_^
just my two cents!
haha tama yan migz! =)
"The best girls are always taken." Sabi lang, di ko lam kung totoo. Hehe
thanks "gelineinlove".. :)
add ko lang..if matino din ang guy bakit nag-a-ask sya ng date dun sa girl na alam nyang may bf na or taken na?..hmmm..tapos sasabihin nyo kami dapat iwasan?..i mean..haller?..sino ba na una nagparamdam?..di ba dapat fault nyo yun?..kayo una nagpapansin..ahaha..pero di kami flirt..we're just trying to appreciate..and be nice to someone nice.. :) *PEACE! :)
i agree! tumpak! :)
add pa din ako ha.. :)
may something special sa inyo dalawa..and you cant help seeing/texting each other..why?..
love works in mysterious way..you cant explain why..basta you know she feel you boy..kakaloka diba?..pero thats just it..love sucks..but i have my bf 6yrs na kame in rel..but never ako nakipagtext sa someone na alam kong medyo may tingin sakin or go out on a date with others..i stay loyal..why?..kasi i found what ive been looking for all my life..and he's my life..bakit pa ako maghahanap ng iba?..am almost contented..anu connect sakin?..well, wala lang..di ako ganun..and di lahat ng committed girls ganun..sana dont judge sa mga ganung girls..maybe naghahanap lang sila where they can find the so-called "HAPINEZZZZZZ & LOVE"
Eto sagot ko sayo.
"So anyways, ayun. I hate it. pero kasi minsan, di mo maiwasan pag nagustuhan mo. Mali pero alam mo naman ang puso, palaging mali. Minsan lang tumama, pero mali pa din talaga. Aynako. Malabo, pero sana magets nyo."
Nyahaha!! basta migs...
On dating, pili ka nalang ng walang bf ---
iwas sa mga tukso :)
@ ate janis - tnx ate. :) sana nga makahanap.
ako? di ako lumalapit sa guys hahaha
ako ang nilalapitan ng guys nyahaha (kapal peys)
one of the boys ako eh, barkada ko mga guys at comrade,
at simula pa lang walang bolahan, MAY MAHAL na ako :D
pero i cannot stop from befriending other guys naiintindihan naman yun,
kasi recruiter ako ng isang samahan hehehe so part of the trade
pero walang hokeypokey bolahan, kumpare mo ako, comrade ika nga :D
at least i make that clear sa simula.
pero i can imagine that it is not really impossible na ang tunay na pag-ibig mo'y
may nauna nang iba, well, sa part nung may karelasyon na: she/he had to decide,
kung magsstay ba sa isang relasyon kahit wala nang pag-ibig or
leap unto the unknown?
parehas walang kasiguraduhan,
ganun naman yun sugal.
pero di pwedeng doble kara,
na parehas mong aamigin.
(ewan if i make sense :D - hehe nakita ko lang sa link to ni nikkodelaine)
i definitely agree!!! ^_^
pero i also wanna say... it sux din when yung guy yung may gf. hahahahah... :p
"So anyways, ayun. I hate it. pero kasi minsan, di mo maiwasan pag nagustuhan mo. Mali pero alam mo naman ang puso, palaging mali."
cnabi mo pa!! ampfness.. hirap talaga mainlab! wahhh..
pa-link din po.. ty! ^_^
oo nga! inuman na lang! ikampay na lang yan! heheheh...
mapera si Migs... lagi sigurong niyayaya sa date...
ako Migs walang BF!!!
hindi ako naniniwala na TIME IS GOLD... ROLEX IS GOLD pwede pa...
inuman na lang..parang mga lasing na tyo dito..ahaha :)
hmm.. wala ako masabi.. hahaha..buti n lng mabait ako.. hahaahah
marami kasing tao sa mundo na hindi makuntento sa iisa lang. gustong tikman ang lahat... pasway! sakit sa ulo ang mga yan...
wahahahaha arraaay
wag nang ma-sad :) stay happy kahit singgol, madami pang iba jan
whoa.. july ski =) ahehehe
whahaha.. chillax! may mga malalandi talagang babae sa mundo! mga letse sila eh.. whahahha
agree malandi ang guys!...baka naman namimisinterpret yung girl?i mean,baka friendly lang talaga sha.=)
bwahaha! TOTOO YAN..marami ring malanding lalake..maliban sa bading ha.
mga lalakeng babaerong malandi :))
sino sino kaya yun?
Migs, siguro kaya nakikipag date syo ang mga babaeng may ka relasyo na
mayaman ka kasi alam mo naman ang babae pag naka kilala ng mayaman
na lalake..gwapo na sa kanila(di ko sinabing panget ka ha) gwapo mo nga eh.
LOL
@ true - hindi ako mayaman lol at ang sarcastic ng sagot mo hahhah
not exactly.pero ha,reality check.its being practical dude.haha!!i know someone who's very very pretty tas nag ka bf sha ng hampas lupa,i mean mukang lupa. shet,langit lupa sila.but the guys car?whew.handsome mehn!and his wallet??shit.over flowing with gorgeousness..haha!di ako nanlalait,di lang ako plastic.=)
grabe parang linya sa movie!!! shyet!!
oo nga badung, may jowa ka na nakikipagdate ka pa huh?????:P ingats badung=D
i agree ang puso laging mali...minsan kala mo tama na ...un pala mali pa rin....laging nagkakamali...na experienced ko na kasi...masakit...at napakalabo talaga...ingat na lang sana makahanap ka na ng "tama"...ng hindi ka na nalalabuan...at magliwanag ang mundo mo...:)
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